most of the cutesy stuff on tumblr is about finding the right lover who’ll accept you for all your imperfections and let you pursue all your dreams and blahblahblah

I think we need more

“FUCK YEAH I’M GOING TO BE SELF-EMPOWERED AND I DON’T NEED ANYONE TO SERVE AS MY PSYCHOLOGICAL OR EMOTIONAL CRUTCH”

We’d be deluding ourselves either way, I suppose.